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Thu, 12/29/2016

If you have lost a loved one, I bet you’re dreading the New Year…

Believe me, I know how feel.

Right after my beloved Jean left his body, a dreadful image kept appearing in my mind.

It was the image of my future, which I saw as a long black road unspooling to the horizon. The road was surrounded by empty desert on all sides.... Read More

Thu, 12/22/2016

If you’re grieving the bodily loss of a loved one, I know how hard the holidays can be.  

Holidays are the time we slow down and take a trip down memory lane.
In no time, we fall into a pit of sadness remembering those we have “lost.” 
Today, I want to... Read More

Sun, 12/11/2016

Contrary to popular belief, time doesn’t heal grief. I’ll say it again. Time doesn’t heal grief.

 In fact, I know that time actually adds salt to the wound.

 Why do I say this? Because we aren’t meant to be separated from those we love. And, the longer we go without connecting to those we love, the worse we feel, and the worse our... Read More

Wed, 11/23/2016

Do you believe that reconnecting with loved ones in spirit is the same as opening the door to the devil?

If you said, “yes,” then I’m guessing you were raised in the Christian faith…

But, I bet you didn’t know that the Bible actually tells us that we should reconnect with those in spirit.

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Mon, 10/31/2016

Not tonight honey. I have a headache is not something you will ever hear from loved ones in spirit.


Because loved ones in spirit are... Read More

Thu, 10/20/2016

And, I’m really fed up!

Let me explain why.

This summer, I offered the Love Never Dies retreat at Kripalu.

One of my students was a lovely woman named Joyce who was grieving the bodily loss of her husband.

Joyce said that she senses her husband is always with her, but she added that she has a block to reconnecting.

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Mon, 10/03/2016

If you’re anything like I was in the early stages of my grief,  I bet you spend a good deal of time reminiscing over your loved one.

Maybe you pour over photo albums...

Or mentally replay memories...

Or even tell stories about that person.

Now I have a question for you.

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Tue, 09/13/2016

If you're grieving the bodily loss of a loved one, I know how easy it is to fall into a pit of self-pity.

But, when we're wallowing in self-pity, we blind ourselves to all the ways that our loved ones are reaching out and reminding us that they are still here!

During periods of distress, especially in the early days of my bereavement, I found myself unable to receive communications from Jean. I believe that the signs of... Read More

Fri, 08/26/2016

A couple of weeks ago, I received an email from the assistant of a famous corporate leader, Dr. Lance Secretan. He just wrote his memoir, A Love Story, in which he describes his passionate, life-long romance with wife, Trish. Dr. Lance wanted to meet me because he had heard about my book, Love Never Dies, and knew that we have much in common.

We had a brief phone call and I invited him to come on Ask Dr. Love radio to talk about his... Read More

Tue, 08/30/2016

In mid-August I spent a day at Lily Dale Assembly (the largest spiritualist community in America). I was teaching people how to establish a spiritual reconnection with their physically departed loved ones.

Helping all the participants establish afterlife communication with loved ones in spirit was magical. I was so thrilled to be able to assist so many people in reconnecting, dialoguing with their loved ones, and healing... Read More